Dress codes, guests, tee times and the unwritten rules: how to settle in comfortably at your new club.
Joining a club is exciting, and every club has its own customs. A little preparation helps you feel at home from your first visit. When in doubt, ask the membership office or a fellow member; most are glad to help.
Read the club handbook
Every club publishes rules covering dress, guests, reservations, mobile phones and more. Reading them before your first round or dinner avoids awkward moments.
Dress codes
Dress codes vary from club to club and from room to room. Common examples:
- Golf: collared shirts, tailored shorts or trousers, and soft-spike shoes
- Racquet sports: court shoes and appropriate athletic wear
- Dining: casual in the grill room, more formal in the main dining room on certain evenings
Tee times and courts
Most clubs use a booking system with rules about how far ahead you can reserve, and in busy months some use lotteries. Arrive early, check in at the pro shop and be ready to play at your time.
On the course
- Keep pace with the group ahead
- Repair ball marks and divots, and rake bunkers
- Follow cart rules, especially after rain
- Be quiet while others are playing
Guests
Members are usually responsible for their guests' conduct and charges. Clubs often limit how often the same guest can visit. Check the policy before you invite friends.
Getting involved
The fastest way to feel at home:
- Join a league, clinic or social group
- Attend new-member events
- Volunteer for a committee
- Introduce yourself to the staff, who are a wonderful source of advice
Staff and service
Many clubs have a no-tipping policy and include a service charge instead, often funding a holiday staff fund. Check your club's policy.
The bottom line
Club etiquette is really about respect for the course, the staff and your fellow members. Learn your club's customs, get involved and you will feel at home quickly.
